I am going to show you the differences between porn sex and real sex. Seeing those differences helped me stop porn addiction in 2014 and even go NoFap. I’ve felt so free and much happier since then. Join me on the bright side!
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00:00 Intro
00:35 My story
01:38 Difference 1: Porn is fake sex on many levels
02:34 Difference 2: Porn is designed mostly for men
03:14 Difference 3: Little or no foreplay
04:12 Difference 4: Fake women orgasms
05:00 Difference 5: No multiple orgasms
05:35 Difference 6: Exaggerated everything
06:42 Difference 7: Weird stuff for overstimulation
07:09 Difference 8: Too much newness
08:08 Difference 9: Porn sex is effortless
08:43 Difference 10: Actors can go on forever
09:19 Difference 11: Men are godlike in porn
10:15 Difference 12: Porn models look too good
11:08 Difference 13: Feeling depressed vs happy
11:47 Difference 14: Feelings: Superficial vs deep
12:36 Realization 1: Porn creates expectations of overstimulation
13:00 Realization 2: Porn sex is fake sex
13:48 Realization 3: Truth
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Pornography is a performance skillfully engineered to create quick arousal and eventually addiction. As you watch it, mirror neurons in your brain trigger, giving you a surrogate of arousal and release. But that really is a surrogate — it’s like taking a bite of cardboard while expecting a delicious banana. Realizing that is a key step to breaking free from porn.
Men like the visual component in sex a lot. But for women, sex is more about romance and connection than visual stimulation. And it’s difficult to find porn actors who are able to portray romance well. So porn sex focuses on men by creating a perfect picture. And women? They watch romantic comedies.
Both men and women in porn appear ready to go immediately. See, us men we don’t need much foreplay. We get aroused, get hard, and we’re ready to go very quickly. And we actually think foreplay is kind of a boring chore. So… porn cleverly shows little or no foreplay, jumping right into the action.
Porn is notorious for faking women’s orgasms. See, it takes way more for a girl to climax than for a man. For us guys, a couple of minutes of stimulation is enough. But a girl needs to feel relaxed and nurtured.
On the opposite, what many women like is multiple orgasms. But porn rarely shows that because that’s kind of boring for us men to watch. So you end up believing that one orgasm is good enough for a girl — just like for you.
Pornography is all about exaggeration because it has to compensate for the lack of feelings. So it cranks up the intensity.
Most girls don’t like weird acts shown in porn. Porn shows it just to increase the intensity and overstimulate you.
Newness is good for sex because it boosts your testosterone, increasing your libido. Porn knows that and gives you infinite newness. I used to expect it from my partners in real sex. And they would always grow resentful.
Porn sex is so easy to do. Just tap a few buttons. On the opposite, real sex is hard work. It might sound uninspiring, but this is actually a huge part of the pleasure that you get from sex as a man.
Porn actors seem tireless because they can stop the camera rolling and get some rest. That’s not true for real sex. Average intercourse lasts 5 to 10 minutes.
You watch porn and compare yourself to actors. They are handsome, tall, muscular… Your self-esteem takes a hit because you aren’t up to par. The good news is that you don’t need a big penis or a huge chest to have great sex. Actually, a girl has to like you BEFORE sex so she doesn’t know your size. This visual exaggeration is also true of female actors.
Watching porn sex always made me feel bad. I would then feel guilty, moody, and depressed. And I tried to escape that depression with more porn. Real sex is the direct opposite of that.
Porn sex gives you a sense of connection through visual stimulation. Your mirror neurons make you believe you are part of the action. But the truth is you are only looking at pixels on the screen. Real sex is about depth.
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